Renting sucks! A parent's perspective

Tell me you’ve heard this before: A renter is trying to establish a stable home in order to focus on their career, family, and savings—then the landlord provides a swift punch to the gut. You have to move out, we’re selling, we’re renovating, or we’re moving our family in. Suddenly the renter’s life is turned upside down, often for months. This brutal scenario plays out all over Canada, week after week.

It should be no surprise the Canadian rental market has become a total nightmare for young adults trying to find a stable place to live. As parents, it's tough watching our kids struggle with high rents, constant insecurity, and the looming threat of eviction. There's high demand, not enough supply, and rental costs are through the roof.

Major cities like Toronto, Vancouver, and Montreal are particularly challenging, with rental prices soaring year over year. According to the Canada Mortgage and Housing Corporation (CMHC), the average rent for a two-bedroom condo in Toronto was nearly $3000 a month in 2023, and it may only continue to increase.

Maybe there’s something we can do about it.

The toll

Home should be where the stability is

One of the biggest downsides of renting is the lack of stability. Renters constantly worry about getting evicted, especially when landlords can legally increase the rent to match market rates or decide to convert the property for other uses. Some landlords also use shady tactics like renovictions – evicting tenants under the disguise of renovations, only to re-rent the place at a much higher price. It’s a clear case of money-hungry investors taking advantage of a tough market. Infuriating.

Forget saving when rent is so high

High rental costs mean that a huge chunk of a renter’s income goes toward housing. For many young adults, this leaves little room for saving, investing, or achieving other financial goals like paying off student loans. Statistics Canada reported that in 2022, renters in downtown Toronto and Vancouver were spending upwards of 60% of their income on rent, which is a major red flag for housing affordability. In a lot of cases, it’s nearly impossible to save for a downpayment on a house while renting in Canada. 

Life: on hold

Maybe it wasn’t 3 decades ago, but today, searching for a new rental is incredibly disruptive. This often means doing time-consuming, extensive research, taking time off work to meet the rental owner or representative, and dealing with the stress of potentially moving multiple times in a short period. To top it all off, in hot rental markets, bidding wars for units can add an extra layer of stress and anxiety for potential tenants. For young adults trying to establish their careers and personal lives, this instability can take a serious toll on their mental health.

A path to homeownership

Perhaps it’s obvious, but renting sucks.

While many considerate landlords exist and some tenants are quite happy, the reality is that for most renters, true stability remains elusive. For many young adults, the solution to this instability lies in achieving homeownership. Owning a home isn't just a milestone—it's a game-changer that offers the promise of a secure and prosperous future.

Begin to Unlock Financial Freedom

Owning a home provides a level of financial stability that renting simply can’t match. Fixed mortgage payments protect against the rollercoaster ride of rising rents and inflation. Over time, homeowners often find their housing costs decreasing relative to their income, especially as they pay down their mortgage. This financial predictability eases the stress of budgeting and allows young adults to focus on broader financial goals and aspirations.

The Emotional Upside

But the benefits aren’t just financial. The psychological and emotional rewards of homeownership are significant. The security of owning a home eliminates the constant fear of eviction and the stress of frequent relocations. This sense of permanence can boost mental health, leading to increased life satisfaction and an overall sense of well-being. Imagine the peace of mind that comes with knowing you have a place to call your own—forever.

What you can do to help

Given the challenges in today’s Canadian rental market, it’s more important than ever for parents to help their children achieve the dream of homeownership. By supporting them in this journey, we provide a powerful foundation for their future success.

Consider offering financial guidance or contributing to a down payment. Teach them about financial literacy and the housing market to empower them to make informed decisions. By doing so, we help our children navigate the rocky terrain of the rental market and move confidently toward a stable future.

Ultimately, investing in our children's future by supporting their journey to homeownership is not just a financial decision but a profound commitment to their happiness and success. Let’s give them the stability and peace of mind they deserve, enabling them to thrive in all aspects of life.

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